Harmony at Frog Meadow New England's Best All Male Gay Resort in Southern VermontFair Housing Policy

We are an all male establishment, as allowed by Vermont State Statute Title 9, Commerce and Trade, Chapter 139, Discrimination in Public Accommodations, section (d). Our customers are primarily gay, bi and trans men, but all men are welcome.

Unregistered Visitors

For the safety and security of our guests and staff, unregistered visitors are not permitted on property at any time without prior notification and consent of the owners. Any unregistered guests must be known previously by the registered guest inviting them for a minimum of one year. Absolutely no persons met on a dating site such as Grindr or Scruff for the purpose of “hooking up” will be allowed. Failure to comply with this policy or to misrepresent the relationship with the invited unregistered guest will result in the immediate expulsion of all parties involved and the outstanding balance for all nights booked will be charged to the card on file.

Please note that we do not offer facility tours.


We gladly accept PayPal, MasterCard, Visa, American Express, Discover, check or cash.

Minimum Stay

There is a two-night minimum stay on weekends. There is a three-night minimum stay on 4th of July Weekend, Labor Day, Columbus Day, Christmas and New Years weekends as well as Martin Luther King and President’s weekends.

Early Arrivals/Late Departures

Check in is 3:00pm Check out is 11:00 am. We will do our best to accommodate requests for early arrivals and late departures however the request must be made at the time of booking. Absolutely no early arrivals or late departures will be allowed for one night bookings.


We regret that we cannot welcome your pet here at Frog Meadow. While we love those four legged furry creatures (the two legged variety are most welcome!) We have made this decision for the comfort of all our guests.

There is a wonderful home-like kennel less than half a mile from Frog Meadow. Please contact Jackie Toth of Full Stride Kennels at fsk@svcable.net or call 802-365-4540 for more information.

Lodging Reservation & Cancellation Policy 

A 50% deposit is due on booking. Cancellations made 30 or more days prior to arrival are refundable less a 10% cancellation fee of all nights booked with a minimum of $55. Cancellations made less than 30 days FOR ANY REASON are non-refundable. If we are able to re-book all or any cancelled nights we will issue a non-expiring house credit to be used at a future date for the portion of the booking that was re-booked.

Deposits taken for single room reservations of four nights or more and group reservations for three rooms or more of any duration are non-refundable.

Check in is 3:00pm. Check out is 11:00 am. We will do our best to accommodate requests for early arrivals and late departures however the request must be made at the time of booking. Absolutely no early arrivals or late departures will be allowed for one night bookings.

Special events such as massage retreats have their own cancellation policies. See the specific event page for details.

Rooms are held by deposit only. We will be happy to hold a room for 24 hours after your first email inquiry until you are able to reach us by phone with your credit card information. After 24 hours the room may be booked to another party unless we hear from you. Humans and emails are not infallible. Spam filters and other issues can interfere with the delivery of emails. If you do not get a response to your email within 24 hours please call 877-365-7242 to make your reservation. Rooms are not booked until you receive a response from us.

Please note that we do not give refunds for bad weather, i.e. rainy weekends or snow storms. In the case of a winter storm making travel dangerous or impossible on the day of your arrival we will be happy to issue a credit good for another stay or Frog Meadow merchandise.

Massage Cancellation Policy

There is a minimum 24 hour cancellation policy for massages. Those making cancellations less than 24 hours prior to the booked session will be charged the full amount of the booked time.

Check-in and Check-out

Check in time is 3:00 PM. Depending on occupancy we will do our best to accommodate early arrivals. You are always welcome to drop off your bags until your room is ready.

Check ins later than 9:00PM are possible by prior arrangement only. Please let us know when making your reservation if you will be arriving later than 9:00PM.

Check out time is 11:00 AM. If no one is arriving in your room the day you are checking out it may be possible extend check out time depending on staffing.

Alcoholic Beverages

Frog Meadow does not have a liquor license so we are BYOB. Please feel free to bring an adult beverage of your choice to enjoy during your stay.

Day Passes

We do not offer day passes. If you would like to schedule a massage, access to the gym and/or hot tub is available for an additional $30 per-person fee. Please click here for further information.

Handicap Accessibility

Unfortunately, we are not at all wheelchair accessible. There are multiple steps to enter the Main House and other buildings and none of our rooms are on the first floor. The entrance to the B&B is also by stairs. Our B&B is not wheelchair accessible. Bathroom facilities for our guests use do not contain handicap faucets. None of our bathrooms have a curbless shower. We built Frog Meadow as our home in 1995 and never considered that we might one day be a B&B, otherwise we certainly would have done things differently. If we do not meet your accessibility needs, there is a gay-owned motel 12 minutes away (The Lodge at West River www.lodgevt.com) in Newfane and we will help you in any way possible to find lodging that will meet your needs.

We are committed to making all of our web content, including electronic and information technology, accessible to everyone. To ensure that we meet or exceed the requirements of Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973 and the 1998 Amendment to Section 508 of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973, we continually review our website in order to remove accessibility problems for people with disabilities. While our commitment to accessibility includes making web content accessible, this is a work in progress. If you have a problem accessing or using any of our website, please contact us at 877.365.7242 or by email at info@frogmeadow.com.

Special Dietary Requirements/Food Allergies

Please let us know at time of your booking if you have any special dietary requirements or food allergies (e.g. vegetarian, gluten-free, etc.) and we will do our best to accommodate you. We do our best to respond to guests’ food allergies, food sensitivities and vegetarians, but generally cannot 100% accommodate paleo/keto, etc. requests. During summer season, there is a hospitality cabana with fridge, so please feel free to pack snacks.

Kitchen Privileges

We do not offer Kitchen Privileges owing to licensing and insurance compliance. During summer season, there is a hospitality cabana with microwave, fridge/freezer, ice and barware exclusively for guest use.


We do not offer camping or campsites although there is a wonderful men-only campground nearby in Hinsdale, NH called MountainSide owned by two wonderful guys named David & Michael. You can find out more about camping at MountainSide here.

Privacy Policy

Frog Meadow will never sell or share anyone’s personal or contact information with any individual or company for any reason. If you choose to join Frog Meadow’s email list you are protected by the Constant Contact Safe Unsubscribe policy:

Frog Meadow has agreed to the terms and conditions of Constant Contact’s anti-spam policies along with following email marketing best practices, including that the manager of this mailing list may only send you general email communications if they have your permission; and that you can have the confidence that you may safely unsubscribe at any time. Also, in keeping with the law, this Constant Contact customer agrees to include valid contact information on every communication to you.


Guest Reviews

Thank you for the gift that Frog Meadow has brought to my life!

Like many people with the beginning of a new year this is the time of year I reflect on what was and the promises of what is to come. Frog Meadow continues to hold a special place in my heart. I am truly blessed to have a fabulous life that I continue to celebrate each and every day with gratitude for the gift that it is. The joy and gratitude I feel today didn’t happen in a vacuum, my celebration of today is the result of many days before them framing what became my life’s journey.
Over a hundred days and nights of my life’s journey have been spent with special people at this special place called Frog Meadow Farm. So many wonderful memories that are mine to keep. For everything there is a season, my seasons at Frog Meadow laid the foundation to help me create a life today that exceeds my wildest dreams. I have created a life that mirrors the joy I learned to experience at Frog Meadow. You all helped me realize no matter what our dreams we can turn those dreams into reality.
Anyway, I just want to express my sincere gratitude to you both, know you have been in my thoughts over the last year. As the new normal unfolds and your regular operations resume, I wish you every success in the future. I look forward to a return visit to Frog Meadow to raise a glass to thank you in person for the gift that the Frog Meadow experience has brought to my life.
Happy New Year!
M.R., Carver, MA
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