Gay Kamasutra GAY-TANTRA Workshop at Frog Meadow, The Northeast's Premier All Male Gay Resort and Retreat Center in Southern Vermont

The Kama Sutra, the most important love doctrine of Sanskrit literature, can also be for same-sex couples a rich source of exciting findings: Behavior that has become entrenched is left behind to bring sexual togetherness to a new bloom. 

As Tantra can also be called “sexual yoga”, so describe the love positions of Kama Sutra Yoga postures in sexuality. We want to learn these in a fun way in this workshop.

Let GAY-TANTRA show you the way! 

Watch workshop facilitator Armin Heining explain more about about Gay Kama Sutra and Tantra!

This Workshop will bring your self-confidence into a healthy balance and let you experience for yourself that sexuality can be playful, simple and a source of great joy and creativity in your life. *Open-minded couples are cordially invite to join us! Married couples, guys that are dating or best bud/FBs, all couples are welcome!

  • For centuries Tantra has been considered to be the ultimate path to enhance one’s spiritual and physical experience because of the erotic energy that is generated.
  • This is because Tantra is the link between spirituality and sexuality!
  • Kama Sutra is an “add-on” to Tantra which inspires and makes learning fun.

GAY-TANTRA™ by Armin Heining teaches you ancient tantric techniques that will unlock and enhance spiritual and sexual pathways – and help you become your authentic self. Join us as he brings his ‘Gay Kamasutra’ – Inspired Sexuality GAY-TANTRA Workshop to the US for the second time!

When you join us for Gay Kamsutra:
  • You’ll experience the trust, camaraderie and connection of a really “good” – e.g. warm, nice, upscale, respectful, friendly, sexy and loving – bunch of men who come to Frog Meadow from different locations throughout the US and Canada…
  • You’ll join with others in the “delightful excitement of a blind date” and leave behind any notion of fear or apprehension. You’ll live in the moment at our 63 acres of private paradise exclusively for men…
  • You’ll learn valuable new techniques and experience new ways to share immense erotic pleasure, excitement and create deep connections for yourself and your sexual partner… techniques that you’ll take home and share with others for years to come…
  • You’ll fully relax and decompress throughout the workshop’s all-inclusive weekend format, enjoying super-comfortable lodging  accommodations, yummy made-from-scratch farm-to-table meals and return home with a fresh perspective and renewed outlook on your sexuality and life in general! 

Chakra breathing at Frog Meadow, The Northeast's Premier All Male Gay Resort and Retreat Center in Southern Vermont

As part of the GAY-TANTRA™ Kama Sutra Workshop you’ll run fire through your body chakras and connect it to partners. You immerse in a common experience of sexual energy!

Course and Contents:

  1. Body awareness, movement and connection help you to get in contact with yourself and other men.
  2. Active and calm meditations help you to let go of your everyday life to arrive within yourself, in order to be open for a sponateous connection.
  3. Movement sequences from yoga increase mobility, smoothness and loveability of your body.
  4. Love positions of the Kamasutra will be shown and practiced in different sequences both in the active as well as in the receptive role and practiced lightly dressed in the classroom.
  5. You will have time to meet with your partner afterwards in your private room to practice of the love positions in your way for deeper intimacy and connection.
  6. Movement and dance, touch and massage, breathing and expression exercises round out the full program.
  7. Silence, meditation, conversation and exchange further compliment the workshop and give an outlook on how the experience will be further cultivated and can be intensified.

This workshop is suitable for you:

  • If you want to experiment with the topics of ‘Kama Sutra’ and ‘Tantra’.
  • If you are looking for new inspirations and energy for your sexual life.
  • If you feel like you are a man full of delight and creativity in your sexual expression.
  • If you want to be loving and pleasurable with your partner.
  • If you’re looking for new ways to make your love life more varied, creative and exciting.

Upon registration for this workshop you’ll receive for advance familiarization and joyful preparation the following materials:

  • Gay Kamasutra DVD GAY-TANTRA Workshop at Frog Meadow, The Northeast's Premier All Male Gay Resort and Retreat Center in Southern Vermont

    Upon registration you’ll receive Armin Heining’s GAY-TANTRA Film “Gay Kamasutra” and several other bonus films as downloads so you can prepare yourself for the workshop, increase your experiences during the workshop and implement what you have learned in everyday life!

    Armin Heining’s GAY-TANTRA™ Educational Film ‘Gay Kama Sutra’ (75 minutes): This video opens an extensive variety of love positions for men which includes the ‘Verses of Desire’. You’ll broaden and enrich your sexual life!

  • Additional bonus films for download to allow you to maximize what you will learn and take home from this workshop!


Open to All Open-Minded Couples! Married couples, guys that are dating or best bud/FBs, all couples are welcome!

All are welcome to join us…to learn…to share….to touch…to enjoy! The program is open to couples couples wanting to bring more compassionate, sensual and sexual expression to their relationships seeking to connect with men in holistic new ways. The program is open to beginners as well as men with prior tantra/tantric experience. You’ll benefit from sharing and learning with men who are open-hearted, full of patience and are committed to supporting each other throughout the 2-day Weekend Couples Workshop Retreat!

  • Note that a certain amount of physical flexibility and fitness are prerequisites for participating in the Gay Kamasutra Couples Workshop.

Click here for FAQs about the Gay Kama Sutra Couples Workshop.

GAY-TANTRA and more at Frog Meadow, The Northeast's Premier All Male Gay Resort and Retreat Center in Southern Vermont

Click the image above or here to read a first-hand authentic portrayal of GAY-TANTRA “Desire-Ecstasy Bliss Workshop” published by Edge Media July 2018

The unique format of this 2-day residential retreat will allow plenty of time for you to learn, practice, to relax and get acquainted with other participants in a comfortable, supportive and safe environment. You’ll live, share meals, and learn communally with others as an intimate tribe of like-minded coupled men and have the opportunity to bond quickly through a variety of activities – fully immersed in Frog Meadow’s natural setting. Most importantly, we will all nurture, learn and share the important source of our zest of life sensations, of sensuality, and pleasure which are core parts of Tantra!

Note: You may wish to consider booking 1-2 additional lodging nights following the workshop to maximally decompress and integrate what you have learned afterwards, to schedule a 60-minute massage, and to fully experience Frog Meadow’s restorative tranquility.

According to Armin: “I am very happy and excited to bring my ‘Gay Kamasutra’ GAY-TANTRA Workshop for Couples to Frog Meadow…please join me!”

About GAY-TANTRA™ and the Retreat Facilitator

GAY-TANTRA Workshop facilitator at Frog Meadow, The Northeast's Premier All Male Gay Resort and Retreat Center in Southern Vermont

Workshop Facilitator Armin Heining

With the continuing release of his ground-breaking GAY-TANTRA™ 11-part film series beginning in 2010 and continuing through 2017, Armin Heining has helped Tantra become widely known within the gay community in Europe. His GAY-TANTRA™ workshops, seminars, counseling, coaching and films are unique in Europe and he is considered to be the ultimate authority on meditation and ecstatic sexuality, the art of massage and the culture of most intimate communication.

Moreover, in Germany & Europe, Armin’s GAY-TANTRA™ programs are widely accepted & considered as legitimate spiritual & sexual educational enrichment programs, created to serve the specific needs of the gay community – a resource that is not available in the US. We think this is a very forward-thinking point-of-view, and we’re pleased to bring Armin’s innovative GAY-TANTRA programs to the gay community in the US!

Armin Heining is the founder of the “Institute for Meditation & Tantra” and internationally recognized pioneer & founder of GAY-TANTRA™. For 27 years he has had an active presence throughout Europe with workshops, seminars, edu-vacations and training programs that include “The Gay Superorgasm”, “Love – Desire – Ecstasy”, “The Art of Erotic Self-loving”, “Ultimate Gay Sex”, ”The Dark Side of Eros” and other topics. 

During his 10 year journey from Benedictine Monk to GAY-TANTRA™ Guru, Armin Heining searched to learn the connection between spirituality and sexuality. The result of Armin’s journey was the development of a unique program that incorporates meditation and touch called GAY-TANTRA™. Armin has gathered experience, both by working on himself and together with many hundreds of gay, bisexual and heterosexual participants using the most varied techniques & instruments to achieve lasting healing and wholeness in body, soul and spirit. GAY-TANTRA™ uses the strongest of these. 

Armin regularly facilitates GAY-TANTRA™ programs in Germany Switzerland, Austria, Italy, The Netherlands, The UK and Denmark, and concluded his first US professional masseur training & certification program in February 2015 at Frog Meadow. The upcoming 2-day Workshop is Armin’s 10th time time facilitating a program at Frog Meadow!  

Armin is based in Berlin, where he is additionally the principal owner and lead Masseur of the Oasis for GAY-TANTRA™ massages, a place where a team of Masseurs provide GAY-TANTRA™ massages for men in an exclusive atmosphere, a Tantra School for gay singles and couples, counseling, gay sex coaching and more. His focused and structured, yet light-hearted teaching approach creates a relaxed and welcoming environment that will put you at ease and make learning GAY-TANTRA™ a pleasure!

Learn More about Armin’s Journey from Benedictine Monk to GAY-TANTRA™ Guru in the video below:

Click the image above for answers to FAQs about our Workshops & Retreats

About The Workshop/Retreat Setting at Frog Meadow:

  • The Setting: The unique and magical setting of Frog Meadow’s 63-acres enhances your workshop and retreat experience. It is a sanctuary where men celebrate, transform and integrate body and mind and spirit.
  • Lodging: Our five unique rooms and suites provide comfortable accommodations for single men and couples. To simplify room selection, we typically assign single guys a spot in the Deluxe Barn Suite which sleeps 4 comfortably and offer other lodging options as available. We offer a simple and all-inclusive flat-rate pricing for most workshops that includes programs fees, lodging and meals. As a result, workshop/retreat program pricing is not dependent on room selection.
  • Meals: Much of the food we serve comes from our gardens or is locally- sourced. Eggs, bread, yogurt, cheese, apple cider and many other items served at Frog Meadow are produced onsite or provided by local farms. During your workshop/retreat stay with us, meals are served family-style. Evening meals are prepared by Frog Meadow’s New England Culinary Institute-trained chef and include braised chicken quarters w/ lemon vinaigrette & herbs, mushroom polenta; grilled beef w/ red wine mushroom sauce, seasonal veggies, quinoa pilaf; bouillabaisse w/ seasonal fish; thai pho noodle soup w/ chicken & vegetables. Please let us know at time of registration if you have any special dietary requirements (e.g. vegetarian, gluten-free, etc.) and we will do our best to accommodate you.
  • Workshop/Retreat Space: Workshops and retreats are held in a large, private, high-ceiling space we call the “Retreat Dojo” on the Frog Meadow property, within steps of the main house.


The $2,120 per couple tuition for the ‘Gay Kamasutra’ Workshop
is all-inclusive and comprises all program fees, materials & activities,
2 night’s lodging, home-cooked “from-scratch” meals (2 breakfasts, 2 lunches & 1 dinner),
exclusive use of the property & amenities at Frog Meadow.
See “Retreat Rates & Registration” &
“Important Information” below for full details!

Registration Rates & Amenities: $2,120 per couple (plus $95.40 VT rooms & meals tax) rate includes program tuition and activities, lodging and dinners Friday through Sunday, breakfast & lunch Saturday through Sunday, as well as exclusive use of the amenities at Frog Meadow including 63-acre four-season recreation trail network, gym & wood-fired hot tub.

Note that due to the popularity of Armin Heining’s GAY-TANTRA™ workshops, we expect this program to fully book up in advance, so if you’re interested please contact us by phone (802.365.7242) or book online using our website’s availability calendar, select the dates of Feb 28 & 29 and the workshop will appear as a booking option. Choose from the available rooms and select the workshop package for two persons.

Choose from five different room options: Room allocation will be made in the order of registration (first come, first-served), so be sure to register early to request your room preference. We will make every effort to accommodate your room request however we may need to re-assign rooms to accommodate logistical issues. If this becomes necessary, we will contact you prior to your arrival. Click here for specific room descriptions, amenities and images

Room Options Occupancy Bed / Bath Status
Frog Meadow Suite Double King / Private Booked
Deluxe Barn Suite Quad 2 Queen / Private Booked
North Room Double King / Shared Booked
South Room Double King / Shared Booked
Brook Cottage Double Queen / Shared Booked
Bee Cottage Double King / Shared Available!

Retreat Start/End Times

  • Friday February 28: Arrive after 4.00PM, Opening Circle & Program begin at 7.30PM.
  • Sunday March 1: Closing Circle & Lunch conclude at 2.00PM

Two ways to register for the Gay Kamasutra Workshop:

  1. Book by Phone: Refer to the table above for room amenities and availability. Call 877.365.7242 and we will gladly book your reservation by phone and answer any questions you may have.
  2. Book Online: Refer to the table above for room availability and amenities. Using our Online Availability Calendar, select the available room of your choice for the nights of February 28-29. You will then be guided through the registration process for the program. Choose from the available rooms and select the workshop package for two persons.

Important Information:


  1. The ‘Gay Kamasutra’ Couples Workshop is open to couples wanting to add increased intimacy and compassionate, sensual expression to their relationships. All couples are welcome: Married couples, guys that are dating or best bud/FBs. The program is open to beginners as well as men with prior tantra/tantric experience. Please note that a certain amount of physical flexibility and fitness are prerequisites for participating in the ‘Gay Kamasutra’ Workshop.
  2. At the time of your registration, your credit/debit card (mastercard or visa) will be charged $1,107.70 (50% of the Total Program Rate plus VT tax); the remaining balance will be charged to the card six weeks prior to the scheduled retreat date.
  3. Rates are per-person, double occupancy (2 per room/bed except for Deluxe Barn Suite which is Quad occupancy).
  4. Enrollment is limited to 12 participants (6 couples) and room allocation will be made in the order of registration (first come, first-served), so be sure to register early to ensure your room preference. We will make every effort to accommodate your room request however we may need to re-assign rooms to address logistical issues. If this becomes necessary, we will contact you prior to your arrival. Click here for specific room descriptions, amenities and images.
  5. Please let us know at time of registration if you have any special dietary requirements (e.g. vegetarian, gluten-free, etc.) We do our best to accommodate food allergies, food sensitivities and vegetarians, but generally cannot 100% accommodate paleo/keto, etc requests.
  6. Frog Meadow does not have a liquor license. Please feel free to bring an adult beverage of your choice to enjoy with your evening meal, or we will coordinate pickup nearby on your behalf.
  7. The workshop facilitator is not a psychotherapist and this workshop is not intended as psychotherapy or as a replacement for therapy.
  8. With the completion of your registration, your participation in the Gay Kamasutra  GAY-TANTRA™ Workshop program is bound according to the retreat facilitator’s Conditions of Participation as well as Frog Meadow’s Terms & Conditions of Participation.
  9. Supplemental Lodging & Massages: Please consider booking additional lodging nights following the workshop to maximally decompress and integrate what you have learned afterwards, to schedule a massage, and to fully experience Frog Meadow’s restorative tranquility.
  10. Waiting List: In the event of a cancellation, we will keep a waiting list prioritized in a first-come, first-served basis and will contact you should a participant need to cancel.
  11. Cancellations: For cancellations more than six weeks prior to the retreat, all fees will be refunded, less a 15% of total program fee administration charge. For cancellations after that time, no fees will be refunded unless a replacement participant is found (and will be subject to a 15% administration charge).

Travelling to Frog Meadow

  • Frog Meadow is located off Interstate 91 in southeast Vermont, approximately 10 miles north of Brattleboro, VT. At the time of your registration we will provide detailed directions.
  • We are approximately 2.5 hours from Boston and 4 hours from New York City.
  • The closest airports are Hartford (Bradley) and Boston (Logan).
  • There is daily Amtrak train service to nearby Brattleboro from NYC Penn Station, Newark NY, Philadelphia and Washington DC. If you arrive via Amtrak we will gladly coordinate your transfers to/from Frog Meadow.  


Q and A with Armin Heining about GAY-TANTRA™:

Q: For how long have you been offering the GAY-TANTRA™ Programs?

A: My very first class I offered was a day-long workshop in September 1992 in Nuremberg/Bavaria, already named GAY-TANTRA. Since then I developed dozens of different programs in a variety of four different categories that I have created, including GAY-TANTRA “Classic / Ecstatic” (highly energetic for sexual release); GAY-TANTRA “Origin / Meditative” (for finding inner peace); GAY-TANTRA”Massage / Wellness” (for well being, intimacy and touch); GAY-TANTRA”Holiday & Seminar” (tantric lifestyle and vacation).

Q: How many have participated in your GAY-TANTRA™ Programs?

A: Sorry, I can no longer count them all! My best estimate is at least 5,000 over the past 25 years! I am very glad about the development and continuation of all my programs. And it is always a great joy for me when men come back after a break of ten or fifteen years or write me an email that the experience of many years ago is still influencing their life today in a positive way!

Q: Where did you learn the techniques that have evolved into the GAY-TANTRA™ Program?

A: In 1983 I became a Benedictine Monk and practiced Zen meditation for over 8 years.  Then, in 1990 I was introduced to Margot Anand, the founder of SkyDancing Tantra and began to study with her. I completed her SkyDancing-Tantra Teacher’s training program and was certified as a SkyDancing Tantra teacher in 1992.

I was associated with SkyDancing Tantra till 2008, when I asked to be released from that community. The reason for leaving was to take a further step into my gay identity and to develop my GAY-TANTRA practice completely independent from a straight point-of-view. In a mysterious path I found in 2017 back to Margot Anand and SkyDancing Tantra and we feel more than ever connected in love, respect and enthusiasm for our common tantric path.

Q: Why are you coming to the US with your GAY-TANTRA™ Programs?

A: I love new challenges. I love to expand my energy field! And I love to be challenged in the truth of life. Coming to the US is a challenge and personal growth for me. And, I am very sure after more than six times in the US since 2015 that I can bring new things which have developed in Germany and Europe, but are not yet in the US.

Q: Anything else you might like to share about GAY-TANTRA™?

A: GAY-TANTRA is for me the most intimate way to be with a partner…and the contemplative tradition in Tantra, the Mahamudra, is for me the most intimate way to be with myself.

I love bliss and I love enlightenment. Both belong together. This is what I live, this is what I teach! And I connect enlightenment and bliss with having and eye on our soul – this is my very newest development.

FAQS About the ‘Gay Kama Sutra’ Inspired Sexuality GAY-TANTRA Workshop for Couples

Q: What can I expect from this workshop?
Men who have learned Kama Sutra with Armin, are enthusiastic that they have become much more creative in their sexual expression, more agile in their bodies, more energetic and free in being together with their partners.

Q: Is Gay Kamasutra a sex party?
A: No, definitely not! We learn, as in partner yoga, different positions and the change from one to the other. It can be a lot of fun to imitate or experience the processes of sex positions. In your bedroom you will have time practicing in privacy the inspiration of the classroom.

Q: Are we naked during the workshop?
A: Yes at times you will be. However, as Yoga positions can be practiced dressed also the Kama Sutra love positions do not necessarily need nudity to learn. In the group classroom overt sex will not be happening. However you will have plenty of time to meet with your partner in the privacy of your room to practice and enljoy the inspirations shared in the classroom.

Q: Will it come to direct sexuality? e.g. penetration? 
A: Not in the group classroom, however, in your private bedroom if you feel comfortable with it, of course!

Q: How do I find out more?
A: If you have specific questions about the program please click here to contact Armin Heining


We are pleased to once again welcome Armin Heining and his innovative GAY-TANTRA programs back at Frog Meadow while he is traveling in the US as part of his upcoming Winter Tour! Armin’s Winter Tour includes two residential programs at Frog Meadow; Feb 28-March 1 Gay Kamasutra for Couples Workshop and March 13-15 Gay Kamasutra for Singles Workshop, details are below! Tour details can be found at www.gay-tantra.us.

Date              Topic                                                                         Location
Feb 19-21        Being Touched                                                             Toronto, CANADA
Feb 22-23       Desire – Ecstasy – Bliss                                               Toronto, CANADA
Feb 24             Fun, Creativity & Massage                                         Ottowa, CANADA
Feb 25             Fun, Creativity & Massage                                         Montreal, CANADA
Feb 27             Fun, Creativity & Massage                                         Boston, MA
Feb 28 Mar 1  Gay Kamasutra for Couples                                      Frog Meadow/Vermont
Mar 2              Fun, Creativity & Massage                                         Chicago, IL
Mar 3               Fun, Creativity & Massage                                         Dallas, TX
Mar 4              Fun, Creativity & Massage                                         Albuquerque, NM
Mar 6-11        Tantra Masseur (Certified)                                         Phoenix, AZ
Mar 13-15       Gay Kamasutra for Singles                                         Frog Meadow/Vermont


About Us

Frog Meadow Farm Bed & Breakfast and Massage Oasis for Men is a welcoming, non-judgmental place for men of all colors and backgrounds to unwind and shed the trappings of busy modern life.

Situated on 63 beautiful & private acres, Frog Meadow frequently hosts men’s gatherings, workshops and retreats. Hosts Dave & Scott are committed to providing a welcoming environment to re-connect with nature and yourself.

The South RoomFrog Meadow is only 4 miles from the popular Rock River swimming hole, 10 miles from Brattleboro, VT and 30 minutes Mount Snow & Stratton Mountain ski resorts.

Relax in our spring-fed swimming pond, soak in our wood-fired hot tub, or enjoy our 4-season recreation trails and extensive perennial gardens and orchard!

Be sure to check out our special events calendarphoto galleriesrooms/lodging pages & lodging specials and discover all that gay-friendly Southern Vermont has to offer!

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